I never wanted to be THAT girl (standard:humor, 449 words)
Author: giborim	Added: Apr 17 2003	Views/Reads: 3329/1	Story vote: 0.00 (0 votes)
My whole life I have worked to never be that girl. Then one day I woke up and I was her. Or maybe I wasn't

I never for one second though I'd be that girl.  You know THAT girl.  I
never joined a sorority, never sold out friends for some boy, and I 
NEVER became too obsessed.  I was very happy just living and hanging 
out and dating. 

I like dating, really it is ideal. If you want to go on a date you call
the flavor of the hour and ask him what he is doing.  I'm not conceded. 
 I really don't even think I'm attractive.  But I have always had some 
boy waiting in the wings until my life story happens to write a part in 
for him. 

Now this may sound rude at first but think about it do you think boys
really care?  They can do what they want and I do what I want and then 
if we happen to both want to do something at the same time in the same 
place GREAT.  If not, oh well. 

So this was my life plan.  I knew one day I would want to start the
whole family thing but that was far away in a distant galaxy.  I have 
great friends.  Ok so my friends can be jerks but they mean well, I 
swear. 

So I did break my plan.  I did meet some boy that I cared when and if I
saw him.  It was very upsetting.  I did however maintain my friends 
first approach to dating and it worked and lasted.  Now all the sudden 
I look in the mirror and see that I am that girl. 

That girl who is getting married at 22.  That girl who has a mortgage. 
That girl who every time she sees someone she hasn't seen in a while 
they ask about the wedding. 

UGH.  Why do people think I've changed?  Why would I suddenly want to
talk about weddings.  Do people think I now am interested in the colors 
of the season or what dress to wear or what music will be played!  I 
get the impression people think I was lying.  That I forever secretly 
wanted to be indentured to some man and really wanted to have some big 
blow out wedding.  I'm just writing to let everyone know that isn't the 
case. 

Yes I do want to get married but no I don't want to talk about it.  I
still have other things to talk about like... MTV's Real world episode 
last night and the latest release in the Harry potter series, 
interesting things.  So in case you think marriage changes a person or 
you hate that girl who all the sudden only talks about her great 
relationship or her marriage remember it isn't her who changed it's 
you. 


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